As another year comes and goes, I find myself getting a bit melancholy. I always laughed inside at midnight on New Year's Eve when I would see the adults get teary-eyed, while the kids were just jumping up and down screaming. I wondered how they possibly could be sad during such a fun time.
As I get older, I realize the reason for their mixed emotions: another year of our short lives is gone and we do not know how many more we have left. For many, there are more years behind them than they have in front of them. Our children are growing up and although we have wonderful memories, they are just that: memories. We will never get those times back.
So, even though we celebrate and welcome a new year tonight, let us not forget to be grateful for the year that has past. Yes, for many, it has been a difficult year. We all have our problems, whether they be financial or health, emotional or physical, but let us not be like society as a whole and wish this year never happened. I read in the headlines people saying that they can't wait for this "horrible" year to be over with. There are far more things to be grateful for and remember with joy than to regret. Let us remember our childrens' smiles rather than their tears. Let us remember the babies born, the marriage covenants made, the lessons learned, the special times we all shared together with friends and family. If we wish the year away, it is like wishing away everything good that happened, as well.
God always brings good out of bad. So, if we take just a moment at the stroke of midnight tonight, let us thank Him for all of the good that happened to us this year and pray that we may be so undeservedly blessed in the next.
Happy New Year.